Your Money Map

Did you know your personalized money map is inscribed into the palms of your hands like a blueprint?

Do you want financial freedom?

Why look anywhere other than your own two hands and the personalized money map encoded there. Imprinted in your own two hands is a chart to help you uncover hidden treasures of wealth, prosperity and wisdom.

I’ll be focusing on this topic for several upcoming articles because an editor from the prestigious Real Simple magazine recently asked me to write about the “money line” in the hand. She asked because the 7.6 million magazine readership, of which 90% are women, want insights into generating more money so they can worry less about their families and their future.   

Will I make money?

Many people who have shown me their hands have asked, “Will I make money?” A better question to ask is, “What is the best way for me to make money?” My job is to help you find out who the ‘me’ is that’s asking and wanting to create more affluence. You are a unique, one-of-a-kind who has special talents, remarkable dreams, personalized goals, an individualized level of vitality and a certain emotional drive that needs to be ascertained so that you’re most effective in making your riches. This is where your hands come in handy (pun intended).

Look at the money map in your own two hands

To help you answer the question, “What is the best way for me to make money?” look at your own two hands. Use the glyphs stamped in your hands as a blueprint for declaring your worth, capitalizing on your strengths and shoring up your weaknesses so that you can create, attract and manifest more money in your life, starting now.

The money line

The vertical line of Saturn rising to the middle finger has been called the Fate Line, the Career Line, the Line of Destiny and the Money Line. Saturn energy urges one to accomplish tasks through extended effort and responsibility over time. The length, quality, and quantity of lines under this finger are interpreted to understand how the owner demonstrates responsibility through effort. Effort is made through organization, structure, and discipline. Experience and knowledge support organizational skills. We typically see these Saturnian characteristics in work, projects, and careers. As effort is put forth in work, money typically appears.

Fate Line Configurations Lesson #1

Long Straight Saturn Line

(blue vertical line under the middle finger)

The long, straight Line of Saturn indicates an organized person, with systems in place to complete tasks with perfect outcomes. In the positive this person fulfills commitments and is driven by a thirst for knowledge. In the negative this person may take on too much responsibility or feel overly responsible for the well-being of others.

Strength: Determined, driven

Potential Pitfall: Excessive responsibility

Watch for more money marking lessons in future posts. 

 

How to Become More Precise When Giving a Hand Reading

Hand Analysts: How to Become More Precise When Giving a Hand Reading

By Kay Packard

Foundation

When learning anything new we must first take baby steps before walking and then running. The same is true in learning how to read hands and fingerprints.

The foundation for readings hands is to learn what the sections of the hands and fingers signifies. Next is to understand the meaning of the symbol, line, color and prominent areas of the hand.

For example, in my last article on the Jupiter Star I pointed out the location of the Jupiter Mount, the archetypal significance Jupiter and the effects of the twinkling star in one’s life. In short, at her best, the owner of the Jupiter Star is high achieving and has the gift of influence and leadership over a fitting territory. On the down side she could be lacking confidence, avoiding confrontation and hanging out behind the throne.

 

Blending

To become more accurate and pinpointing when giving a reading the professional hand analyst will blend two markings she sees in the hands. For instance, when a hand has a Jupiter Star and a Line of Persephone the advancing reader will blend the explanations for the Line of Persephone (aka Guide for Lost Souls) to rise strong in her call to influence a particular territory.

While many Guides for Lost Souls, who I have read for, owning the Line of Persephone are often trapped in the downside possibility of the marking, my aim is to empower them with the potential of becoming Queen of the Underworld empowering other lost souls to find their strength and choose to re-surface from the land of Hades (during spring and summer).

 

Assessment

As a reader, I must have a conversation to assess where the Guide for Lost Souls currently dwells on the life pendulum of feeling trapped in despair versus overseeing wounded souls. Lost souls can include abandoned dogs, foster children, recovering substance users, hospice patients; basically, anyone who is ‘slothing through the sludge’ (phrase shared by Certified Hand Analyst Isadora Arielle).

 

 

Key Words and Phrases

Lost Soul key words: Despair, grief, powerlessness, empathy, compassion, choices, resurrection

Jupiter Star key words: Powerlessness, overwhelm, high achieving, ambition, influence, leadership, throne

 

Phrases when combining the two markings

Challenge Path:

Totally trapped, confused, lost, overwhelmed with grief, paralyzed in fear of confrontation

Advanced Path:

High achieving guide for disoriented souls

Way shower for bewildered and disheartened individuals shining a bright light for uplift and encouragement

Directing a center(s) for revitalized and thriving wayward souls

 

A Critical Factor

Discussing the negative path is critical for the advancement of this powerful combination because of the indicated subconscious patterns in day-to-day living (e.g. in grief, overwhelm, powerlessness). Clients feel wholly seen when they hear about the paralyzing effects by which they have been seized, often for years. The validating analysis, read in the hands, paints a realistic picture of optimism for growth and transformation, and ultimately – freedom.

 

Examples

I recently watched 91-year-old concentration camp survivor, therapist and author, Edith Eva Egar who was interviewed by Oprah on Super Soul Sunday. In her book The Choice: Embrace the Possible she wrote, “Our painful experiences aren’t a liability—they’re a gift. They give us perspective and meaning, an opportunity to find our unique purpose and our strength.”

Dr. Egar also said, “Here you are! In the sacred present. I can’t heal you—or anyone—but I can celebrate your choice to dismantle the prison in your mind, brick by brick. You can’t change what happened, you can’t change what you did or what was done to you. But you can choose how you live now. My precious, you can choose to be free.” 

Dr. Edith Eva Egar facilitates patients’ uncovering past trauma and healing. Simply, the title of the book conveys the power in the combination of influential Jupiter with the Guidance of Persephone as the Queen of the Underworld.

 

Other Examples

Death with Dignity across the U.S. supporting the terminally ill to die on their own terms.

A Jewish woman dedicated to helping concentration camp survivors die peacefully by facilitating forgiveness toward their German perpetrators.

 

Tip to Identify the Key in the Hand

Hand Readers, play with blending. Your clients will love you for it. And yes, blend in a third and fourth marking to get to the key in the hand. With practice you will get to the central theme and unique story to help your client realize her greatest potential and give her golden nuggets for expanding into her most sacred life.

 

“Having a dream is what keeps you alive. Overcoming the challenges makes life worth living.” Mary Tyler Moore

 

Check out Kay’s upcoming program to learn how to Identify Gift, Wisdom, Intuition Markings and More starting in Sep. 2019. 

The Jupiter Star

Gift Marking

In this short lesson you will learn about a powerful gift marking called the Jupiter Star. The owner of this marking has the gift of influence and leadership.

The Jupiter archetype can be owned by both women and men; adults, teens and children. The owner of a Jupiter Star is gifted with exceptional vision, the ability to wield power and requires a fitting throne to feel most fulfilled. And above all, he or she has the ambition of a super achieving Valedictorian (named by Richard Unger).

Mythology

In Roman mythology Jupiter was known as the god of the sky and king of gods. His identifying implement was the thunderbolt, his sacred animal was the eagle and his sacred tree was the oak.

According to Wikipedia, “As the sky-god, he was a divine witness to oaths, the sacred trust on which justice and good government depend.”

Symbolism

To understand this lesson, you want to sense into the symbolism associated with the king of gods.

Eagles fly at high altitudes and they never surrender to the size or strength of their prey.

The lightning bolt is a weapon to strike the disrespectful who are without reverence for the vision of the sky-god.

Jupiter Star Examples

Jupitarian fictional example: The film “The Man in the Iron Mask” stars Leonardo DiCaprio in dual roles – one as the hidden twin brother as the man in the iron mask (Phillipe) and the other as a villain-King (Louis). The film centers around four aging musketeers during the reign of King Louis XIV. Witty scenes cleverly switch the two twins (with opposing visions) at various times. Near the end, the musketeers “stand for one and all for one” to take down the villain-King so that the man in the mask (twin brother Phillip) would stand in as the ‘good’ King. Ultimately the musketeers are named as the good-King’s (Phillip’s) royal counsel as he becomes one of France’s greatest kings.

Jupitarian real life example: Melinda Gates was recently interviewed on Super Soul Sunday with Oprah because of her magnanimous fundraising efforts to help women receive education on contraception. She raised something like 2.6 billion dollars for contraception awareness. Stated on her web site is, “Access to family planning information and contraceptives can change lives. Every woman and girl deserves the chance to determine her own future.” The goal of the organization is to bring access to high-quality contraceptive information, services, and supplies to an additional 120 million women and girls in the poorest countries by 2020.

On the interview Gates explained how men in power continue to influence what happens to women’s bodies. While men are the primary source controlling funds this extraordinary philanthropist (Melinda Gates) must find a way to get men to think from the position of women. To do this she asks the men, “What future do you see for your children, and specifically your daughters?” Melinda implied this question as a successful route to help men identify with girls and women in ways they never would otherwise. The Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation is the world’s largest private charitable organization.

I would guess Malinda’s Gate’s life purpose includes Leadership, Influence and Power. She may very well have a Star of Jupiter, as well.

Recognition

Six (or more) pointed star, like an asterisk,  located on the Jupiter mount under the index finger.

Arrows pointing to Jupiter Stars

 

This hand has two Jupiter Stars

What I’d say during a mini hand reading:

You are an ambitious woman gifted with the ability inspire and influence. You have the forte to galvanize change in the world. You may sense an invisible and constant ‘push’ on your back to keep moving forward toward a goal. Ideally the outcomes benefit the entire realm. At your best you are benevolent, allow the chain of command to operate and handle confrontation with grace and ease.

The negative possibility with the star on the Jupiter mount is taking the back seat to another leader, manager or King/Queen and act as the lady behind the throne. However, while in position behind the throne, the followers will still most likely see you as the one to follow.

The Jupiter Star indicates the twinkling effects of gaining experience by claiming your authority, pointing the way for others with your vision, reigning over your own King/Queendom.

Jupiter Star key words

High achieving, vision, strategic thinking, inspiration, overwhelm, helplessness, frustration

Advice for the Gifted Leader

1. Claim and oversee your proper throne

2. Make royal choices

3. Delegate strategically

4. Be real about your to-do list

 

Check out Kay’s upcoming 22-hour program How to identify Gift, Wisdom, Intuition Markers and more, in the palms of your hands.

Line of Intuition

The shape of the Mercury Line reveals the nature of a person’s capacity and style for perceiving.

Straight Mercury Lines belong to people who are curious and have keen insights. Curving Mercury Lines, as in Figure 1 below, belong to individuals who are in constant contact, consciously or unconsciously, with the celestial, attuned to messages from the Divine.

Because this line bows around the Moon mound, you’ll find someone with a natural capacity for diving into crisis of meaning and somehow finding words to make sense of it. On their advanced path, they understand the meaning of life and construct careers as transformational coaches, life purpose consultants, spiritual advisors, life strategists, counselors and ministers.

The owner of a Mercury Line that arcs around the Moon is curious about and considers elements related to dreams, spirituality, the subliminal, unmet emotional needs, and the reality of beliefs. People with Mercury Lines resembling the Figure included in this article have most likely found themselves asking themselves, “What’s the point of living?” and/or “Why are we here?” during times of alienation, stagnation and feeling trapped in the illusion of separation from the self.

While the potential of constant contact with the Divine is very high, equally and opposite is the possibility of not trusting what’s ‘coming in’ and remaining focused entirely on logic instead.

If you have this deeply curving Mercury Line, also known as the Line of Intuition, you most likely understand the feeling of disillusionment and disappointment with life. A sense of despair has led you to ask, “Why?” which is a crucial step toward listening inward for answers. As you stop struggling with the sense of desolation, let go of reason, and accept that you just don’t know why, you find that you surrender to higher intelligence, which then begins to operate through you. You can then allow and trust this special internal mechanism within you that is constantly attuned for deep inner awareness.

After teaching about of this type of Mercury Line in my certification program, one student with this configuration confirmed the description saying,

“I worked 14 years in a job where I had little to zero contact with other people. I worked on secret projects and could never talk about my work. I got sick a lot with migraine headaches, felt alone and numbed out. I finally quit that job because I realized life should not be just making money and paying bills. My heart was longing for freedom, freedom for creative expression. I craved deep, meaningful connections with people instead of just working on computers and projects in isolation.”

She has since developed her skills by becoming a Reiki Master /Healer, ThetaHealing® Practitioner, an influential speaker, and intuitive Scientific Hand Analyst and is now working as an inspirational counselor, interpreting the messages marked in the hands to the owners so that they can know why they are here and how to live with meaning in their lives.

After contemplating the interpretation of the Line of Intuition on her hand, another certified hand analyst told me:

“Yes, I do relate to the natural capacity for understanding the meaning in the life crisis -in my own and in other’s, and I have a near compulsion to explain it to a person who’s in the middle of a crisis. I can make sense of things (from an interior perspective), and when a person is asking for my input and is ready to receive it, I can help them make sense of their experiences. Explaining to someone who isn’t ready to hear it leaves me feeling unseen and misunderstood, and is probably boring or annoying for them. I find that my audience is not always interested, especially not at work so it is a challenge to moderate my natural intuitive communications to fit into the analytical workplace style. I’ve really developed a good practice and the experience to know and trust what’s coming in most of the time, and I can vouch for the experience of constant contact, anytime I put my attention on it, its there. But being immersed in the logic of my technology company workplace is like that unsettled, off balance feeling when you don’t trust your own gut. In the office there are lots of interruptions and I’m surrounded by people all the time. It’s a hectic place and instead of listening to and trusting my intuition, I’m usually just reacting to my environment. With the primary focus on logic for the job it’s hard to go deep and open up to listen and receive.”

Medical Intuitive Caroline Myss exemplifies what this marking is about as a translator of meaning through her lectures about the invisible energy system running through our bodies called the chakras. In her book Anatomy of the Spirit she interprets the symbols of the soul in easy to understand lessons. She has become very well known through helping people learn the language of the human energy system so that they can better understand themselves as a way through spiritual challenges. Caroline’s life revolves around deciphering meaning in everything around her. In her case she intuits illness as it relates to energetic power leaks within a person. Does she have this line on either of her hands, or both? I don’t know but I’d like to find out.

Intuition is a skill anyone can develop, and would benefit by doing so.

If you don’t have this line in your hand it doesn’t mean that you’re not intuitive or cannot be intuitive. By having this Line of Intuition there is a higher probability, on the path to mastery, that the challenges will be quite evident. What I mean by this is that reliance on logic and ignoring the hunches you’re getting will block development. I think of this simply as a road sign indicator letting you know you’re off track and ‘correction’ is needed. Will you trust what you are sensing from within?

Internal oppositions are expected. When they are recognized and brought together you’ll have the perfect ingredients for fuller expression of this gift of highly attuned perception.

Mantra: As I follow and trust myself through my own crisis of meaning I am able to skillfully support others through exploration of the deeper parts of themselves.

Line of Intuition (AKA Line of Clairvoyance)
Figure 1: Line of Intuition (AKA Line of Clairvoyance)

This article has been edited since it was first posted in Nov. 2016.

Check out Kay’s upcoming 22-hour program How to identify Gift, Wisdom, Intuition Markers and more, in the palms of your hands.

Life Purpose Living

Knowing your life’s purpose is one thing. Living on purpose is another.

 

Q: How do you feel when you’re living on purpose?

A: Peaceful, at ease, in the flow, in your zone.

 

Q: How do you know when you’re off track?

A: Life is confusing, a constant struggle, as if you’re riding a bicycle in a river against the current.

 

In Oprah Winfrey’s new book The Path Made Clear: Discovering Your Life’s Direction and Purpose she says, “I believe every one of us is born with a purpose. No matter who you are, what you do, or how far you think you have to go, you have been tapped by a force greater than yourself to step into your God-given calling. This goes far beyond what you do to earn your living. I’m talking about a supreme moment of destiny, the reason you are here on earth.”

 

I would love for Oprah to know that each person’s life purpose and life lesson is precisely encoded into the unique fingerprint patterns. I’m in full agreement with her further statement: “Committing to a life of purpose takes courage.”

 

When you feel like you’ve lost your way, and meaning has escaped your path, take these tips to return to your purpose:

  1. Take a breath
  2.  Make an honest inventory of your grievances, control issues, criticisms and what you’re resisting.
  3. Let go.

 

Advanced tip

Get into the sandbox with your life’s lessons. The lessons I’m talking about are the repeating patterns of obstacles that prevent a positive attitude that all things in life are in support of your purpose. Being in the sandbox with your lessons creates a sense of play. A playful approach can strengthen skills to handle your lessons.

Life lesson example

Let’s say your life lesson is not trusting in yourself and therefore not speaking up when it matters most.

You’re here to learn to listen deeply for your truth, to speak up, be heard and to appropriately surrender to your life’s natural flow. The challenge is not to surrender yourself too much or too little…but just right.

Benefits

(In this example) As you courageously speak up for yourself in the name of your inner truth (not your opinion or stance to be ‘right’ or better) and you surrender appropriately, you develop skills in trust – trusting in yourself – that what you have to say is important and meaningful. You’re learning to trust in your voice regardless of the potential acceptance or rejection that may result.

This creates space for authentic intimacy with others because you are being true to you. Imagine that!

Now, your life’s purpose will certainly bloom with the advanced skills you bravely heightened through your life lessons.

Hand Analyst Chris Kidder pointed me to an article in Science Daily where a recent study indicates people with strong life purpose may take less effort when making healthier choices.

This research showed that people with a stronger sense of life purpose are more likely to respond positively to health messages and experience less activity in brain regions associated with conflict. Read article…

Freedom

The ultimate aim in finding purpose is freedom – mental, emotional, physical and spiritual freedom. However, on that path to freedom is a specific life purpose designed for you and it’s all in your hands and fingerprints.

 

Contact us to discover your life purpose and get direction for living your most meaningful life. To learn how to read hands, come train with us.

Your Life Purpose is in Your Fingerprints

Let’s get up close and personal with fingerprints. In this article you’ll glimpse into what they can tell you about living your very best life and how you can benefit by knowing more about them.

What Fingerprints Can Tell You

Many people spend their entire lives trying to figure out what their purpose is. The life purpose lies deep within each person waiting to be discovered, exposed, lived and mastered.  The Soul’s expression pours through one’s life purpose.  This ‘expression’ can be awakened by deciphering the fingerprint patterns and translating the message to the owner of those fingerprints.

Richard Unger and Vernon Mahabal have influenced what we teach and use in our practice as a non-predictive scientific hand analysts. Following are key words related to various life purpose options decoded from a person’s fingerprints:

 

Behind every human being there is a force to live. Everyone has a desire for self-fulfillment. Describing to someone their life purpose puts them squarely on the path to become everything he or she is capable of becoming. When one is living as they were truly meant to live, fully and completely, liberation abounds. 

Undeniably, FREEDOM is the life experience when one owns their life purpose-power.

This is a growth process. The growth catalyst IS clearly encoded in the fingerprint patterns.

The Journey Into Hand Analysis

Hand analysis practitioners become trail guides for self-discovery, self-actualization, freedom and life-fulfillment. Can you imagine how rewarding that could be- to be either the giver or the receiver of such insight?

Each of us has an inner acorn, capable of becoming an exquisite royal oak. Do you want to help individuals inner-acorn’s sprout and reach full aliveness?

If so, check out AAHA Associate Faculty Teacher Linda Salazar’s upcoming Life Purpose Foundations Intensive starting in September. You’ll learn the essentials of reading fingerprints, lines, shapes, color and consistency of the hands to help people get a broad view into their true nature.

Linda says, “We all want to feel like we belong. We want to feel seen. We want to feel understood. And yet, for many, that’s not how it feels at all. The information in this hand analysis training enables us to dive below the surface where the lifeline of connection exists.”

Many students rave about their own new found personal-awareness as a result of completing hand analysis training classes.

 

“And the day came when the risk (it took) to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”

– Anais Nin

Free Hand Reading Mastermind March 2019

Welcome to the free hand reading mastermind in March 2019. Find below the hands that will be discussed during the webinar on Tuesday, March 19 from 4:00-5:30 PM Pacific Time. Subscribers will receive instructions to join this free webinar on Tuesday. It’s never too late to join. Simply make your request via the Contact Form on this web site to join this group.

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How to Let Conflict Lead You to Love

You were created as love because what created you is love. You can’t change the truth about yourself but you can hide it, deny it and feel unworthy to allow it.

The truth is you are the light of the world.

Because of unconscious and even conscious internal conflict, we attack. When we attack to protect ourselves, we perpetuate attack which can look like criticism, anger, resentment, judgment, fear, and more of the like.

What you project, you believe. What you clutch and cling to you strengthen within yourself.

Your purpose is to teach only love. So how do you teach only love in a world full of conflict, opposition and upside-down thinking?

Answer: Identify every obstacle to love so that it can be brought to truth.

Our hands provide God-given pointers to personal challenges we feed in our lives.

In my workshop How to identify challenge markings in the hands and what to do about them I teach students how to clearly identify 30 different designs that can appear in the hands that can signify significant difficulties for the owners of those symbols.

With proper guidance you can interpret what these markings imply, most importantly, the positive possibilities. Yes, there are positive sides to very difficult challenges mapped in the hands. These markings offer reliable road signs for getting back on track in life with grace and ease.

Following is an excerpt from the student workbook with 30 challenge markings.

Betrayal

Recognition: X’s dangling under the Heart Line below the Pinkie finger

Indicates issues of support from a trusted source.

Negative: Feels betrayed by lack of support from an authority figure who was believed to be trustworthy.

Positive: Sense of betrayal points you to become more authentic and faithful to yourself.

Growth and Integration: Opportunity to learn how to care for and support yourself regardless of outside support systems – or there-lack-of.

The good news is you are not stuck with these difficulties. You can choose differently as designed in the Growth and Integration statement. However, that cannot be accomplished without awareness.

In Forever Hold Your Peace by Linda Salazar she writes, “An unfamiliar road can be a scary path. But when it keeps showing up, again and again, it could be your Higher Mind urging you to bravely go where you’ve never gone before.”

Treasures are revealed when learning specifically what to do about those pesky problems and in turn create a personalized road map to chart a new course for a different destination: Peace.

When we are able to tune into peace, if only for an instant, we are well on our way to allowing the love that we were created to be.

Intended benefits of this workshop:

  • Bring your murky thoughts to awareness
  • Identify and release erroneous mental constructs
  • Gain new positive perceptions
  • Self-acceptance
  • Expanded levels of self-love
  • Personalized mantras to remember the truth in you
  • Inspiration to see, be and teach only love

Requirements: Willingness to be wrong about the way you think of yourself and others when thinking from a mind of confusion, conflict, doubt or hurt.

Goal: There is an unchangeable nature about yourself and we want to reach that Reality, that truth. You cannot find it outside yourself so we won’t look there.

Click here to join me for my upcoming live webinar workshop to learn how to identify 30 challenge markings and let conflict lead you to love. No experience of hand analysis required.

Six Steps to Finding Your Life’s Right Work

Six Steps to Finding Your Life’s Right Work

  • Allow what is most important to you to surface into your conscious mind. Some ways this can happen are through meditation, asking and hearing your Inner Voice, journaling, having a vision, a dream, a near death experience or a shamanic journey.
  • Pinpoint significant markings in your own two hands to understand your special talents, unique gifts and personal strengths and apply them as you take intentional steps forward.
  • Understand the archetypal patterns of power within you that contain a complete set of stories, beliefs, motivations and fears that give you direction in making choices that help you live a life you love.
  • Learn how to navigate internal conflicts and weave apparent opposites and paradoxes into a unified understanding and source of guidance.
  • Allow time for incubation. Through time a culmination of lessons, experiences, successes and realization give you signal that you’re on the right track.
  • Move into the future and ask yourself, “What do I want to know or say that I did, experienced or felt during my life time?”

Why find your life’s work?

Greg Bogart PhD gives us the best answer…

“Finding our vocation is one of the experiences that ultimately makes our lives fulfilling. It is the organizing theme that transforms the scattered fragments of our lives into a spiritually meaningful whole. It is a window from which we see a vision of our future. A vocation is a verse of the great song of creating, revealing our place and function in the vast universe, which is always calling to us, beckoning.”

If you, a young adult or a friend are challenged with finding meaning through work, Kay offers an amazing vocational direction and selection consultation package. For Hand Analysts who want to learn how to conduct a vocational reading check out her upcoming workshop Learn How to Pinpoint Vocational Indicators Using the Science of Hand Analysis.

Click here for past articles about Vocational Analysis Part I, Part II and Part III

 

The Rational Romantic Heart Line

The Rational Romantic Heart Line, linked to the element Air, is long, flat, and straight, and ends in the lower left quadrant formed by an imaginary cross below the index finger. See the image below with the arrows at the start and end of the Heart Line.

If you own this Heart Line, you are constantly assessing, analyzing, and pondering your own feelings and those of others. You loathe fights because disagreements give you even more to think, think, think about. Your thoughts swirl around you like the wind. One of your favorites songs might be “How Deep Is Your Love” by the Bee Gees. Meaningful conversations, in which you have time to actually dialog with another person are of utmost importance. Subtle nuances of words or facial expressions can put you into a tailspin of “What did she mean by that?” Your biggest challenge is to minimize your own mental editing. Overly processing feelings come naturally to the Rational Romantic, and your best trait is consideration. It’s very important for you to recognize and respect your own needs and desires and to make requests for those needs to be fulfilled.

Key Points: Thoughtfulness, consideration, intellectuality, high-mindedness, meaning, examination and indecisiveness.

Rational Romantic Positive: I am considerate and understanding of the thoughts and feelings of others.

Rational Romantic Negative: I can lose myself in ideals and excessive analysis of others.

Mantra: While I am appropriately thoughtful of the emotional needs of others, I am also aware of and honor my own passions.

The above article is an excerpt from Kay’s book Your Life Is In Your Hands; Practical Palm Reading for Purposeful Living.

Join Kay for a live webinar workshop to Discover Your Relationship Roadmap and understand your non-negotiable needs in relationship on Jan. 30, 2019.