How to Let Conflict Lead You to Love

You were created as love because what created you is love. You can’t change the truth about yourself but you can hide it, deny it and feel unworthy to allow it.

The truth is you are the light of the world.

Because of unconscious and even conscious internal conflict, we attack. When we attack to protect ourselves, we perpetuate attack which can look like criticism, anger, resentment, judgment, fear, and more of the like.

What you project, you believe. What you clutch and cling to you strengthen within yourself.

Your purpose is to teach only love. So how do you teach only love in a world full of conflict, opposition and upside-down thinking?

Answer: Identify every obstacle to love so that it can be brought to truth.

Our hands provide God-given pointers to personal challenges we feed in our lives.

In my workshop How to identify challenge markings in the hands and what to do about them I teach students how to clearly identify 30 different designs that can appear in the hands that can signify significant difficulties for the owners of those symbols.

With proper guidance you can interpret what these markings imply, most importantly, the positive possibilities. Yes, there are positive sides to very difficult challenges mapped in the hands. These markings offer reliable road signs for getting back on track in life with grace and ease.

Following is an excerpt from the student workbook with 30 challenge markings.

Betrayal

Recognition: X’s dangling under the Heart Line below the Pinkie finger

Indicates issues of support from a trusted source.

Negative: Feels betrayed by lack of support from an authority figure who was believed to be trustworthy.

Positive: Sense of betrayal points you to become more authentic and faithful to yourself.

Growth and Integration: Opportunity to learn how to care for and support yourself regardless of outside support systems – or there-lack-of.

The good news is you are not stuck with these difficulties. You can choose differently as designed in the Growth and Integration statement. However, that cannot be accomplished without awareness.

In Forever Hold Your Peace by Linda Salazar she writes, “An unfamiliar road can be a scary path. But when it keeps showing up, again and again, it could be your Higher Mind urging you to bravely go where you’ve never gone before.”

Treasures are revealed when learning specifically what to do about those pesky problems and in turn create a personalized road map to chart a new course for a different destination: Peace.

When we are able to tune into peace, if only for an instant, we are well on our way to allowing the love that we were created to be.

Intended benefits of this workshop:

  • Bring your murky thoughts to awareness
  • Identify and release erroneous mental constructs
  • Gain new positive perceptions
  • Self-acceptance
  • Expanded levels of self-love
  • Personalized mantras to remember the truth in you
  • Inspiration to see, be and teach only love

Requirements: Willingness to be wrong about the way you think of yourself and others when thinking from a mind of confusion, conflict, doubt or hurt.

Goal: There is an unchangeable nature about yourself and we want to reach that Reality, that truth. You cannot find it outside yourself so we won’t look there.

Click here to join me for my upcoming live webinar workshop to learn how to identify 30 challenge markings and let conflict lead you to love. No experience of hand analysis required.

Six Steps to Finding Your Life’s Right Work

Six Steps to Finding Your Life’s Right Work

  • Allow what is most important to you to surface into your conscious mind. Some ways this can happen are through meditation, asking and hearing your Inner Voice, journaling, having a vision, a dream, a near death experience or a shamanic journey.
  • Pinpoint significant markings in your own two hands to understand your special talents, unique gifts and personal strengths and apply them as you take intentional steps forward.
  • Understand the archetypal patterns of power within you that contain a complete set of stories, beliefs, motivations and fears that give you direction in making choices that help you live a life you love.
  • Learn how to navigate internal conflicts and weave apparent opposites and paradoxes into a unified understanding and source of guidance.
  • Allow time for incubation. Through time a culmination of lessons, experiences, successes and realization give you signal that you’re on the right track.
  • Move into the future and ask yourself, “What do I want to know or say that I did, experienced or felt during my life time?”

Why find your life’s work?

Greg Bogart PhD gives us the best answer…

“Finding our vocation is one of the experiences that ultimately makes our lives fulfilling. It is the organizing theme that transforms the scattered fragments of our lives into a spiritually meaningful whole. It is a window from which we see a vision of our future. A vocation is a verse of the great song of creating, revealing our place and function in the vast universe, which is always calling to us, beckoning.”

If you, a young adult or a friend are challenged with finding meaning through work, Kay offers an amazing vocational direction and selection consultation package. For Hand Analysts who want to learn how to conduct a vocational reading check out her upcoming workshop Learn How to Pinpoint Vocational Indicators Using the Science of Hand Analysis.

Click here for past articles about Vocational Analysis Part I, Part II and Part III

 

The Rational Romantic Heart Line

The Rational Romantic Heart Line, linked to the element Air, is long, flat, and straight, and ends in the lower left quadrant formed by an imaginary cross below the index finger. See the image below with the arrows at the start and end of the Heart Line.

If you own this Heart Line, you are constantly assessing, analyzing, and pondering your own feelings and those of others. You loathe fights because disagreements give you even more to think, think, think about. Your thoughts swirl around you like the wind. One of your favorites songs might be “How Deep Is Your Love” by the Bee Gees. Meaningful conversations, in which you have time to actually dialog with another person are of utmost importance. Subtle nuances of words or facial expressions can put you into a tailspin of “What did she mean by that?” Your biggest challenge is to minimize your own mental editing. Overly processing feelings come naturally to the Rational Romantic, and your best trait is consideration. It’s very important for you to recognize and respect your own needs and desires and to make requests for those needs to be fulfilled.

Key Points: Thoughtfulness, consideration, intellectuality, high-mindedness, meaning, examination and indecisiveness.

Rational Romantic Positive: I am considerate and understanding of the thoughts and feelings of others.

Rational Romantic Negative: I can lose myself in ideals and excessive analysis of others.

Mantra: While I am appropriately thoughtful of the emotional needs of others, I am also aware of and honor my own passions.

The above article is an excerpt from Kay’s book Your Life Is In Your Hands; Practical Palm Reading for Purposeful Living.

Join Kay for a live webinar workshop to Discover Your Relationship Roadmap and understand your non-negotiable needs in relationship on Jan. 30, 2019.

AAHA Worldwide Resource Community 2019

Welcome to an exciting year reading hands with the American Academy of Hand Analysis Worldwide Resource Community (WWRC).

Do you want to join a virtual community to expand greater understanding and knowledge about hand analysis around the globe?

Join and receive

Four 90-minute live community webinars for hand readers to ask questions, share your knowledge and deepen your confidence

One 25-minute private hand reading from Kay to offer pinpointing and unique support

Confirmation of 5 sets of fingerprint patterns via email or text

Access to Kay to ask reasonably quick questions throughout the year

Prosperity tips proven to support your personal and business endeavors

A variety of templates to support your readings, business advances and increased income

Included in your 2019 membership

Four 90-minute mastermind webinars; once a quarter. Handprints submitted by members will be analyzed and discussed – aiming for the key in the hand.  All calls will be live with webinar screen sharing and recordings sent to participants after each meeting. (Value: $240)

Live gatherings via webinar are scheduled for the following Tuesdays in 2019 from 4:00-5:30 pm Pacific Time

January 22
April 16
July 9
October 15

One 25-minute life purpose reading with Kay. You will be offered pinpointing and unique support, based on your submitted handprints, to encourage you on your life path. This reading can be transformative and validating, even if you’ve had one or more readings already. OR you may choose to use this time for me to analyze the prints of a client, friend or family member. (Value: $125)

What members said about the 25-minute readings they received

“Thank you so much Kay for all your wonderfully helpful and inspiring input. I have listened to the audio recording and I commend your amazing abilities to understand what I was saying. We covered a lot of ground in the 30 minutes or so that we were together, and I can’t wait to implement the info and ideas you shared with me.” – SR

“The sooner you have your reading, with Kay the sooner you will be able to cherish what she sees in your hands. She speaks to your soul. She decodes your profound truth and it is so very inspiring and moving. It just gives you a boost to want to embrace all of life. Much love and gratefulness.” – SG

Give yourself this gift, you will be so happy you did. I had my reading with her last week and I came away reinvigorated, delighted and with renewed focus!!!  Kay brilliantly found a door that had not yet been opened pertaining to my Life Purpose, taking it to a completely new level for me. I have been journeying through some new and uncertain territory this past year and Kay’s brilliant insights shot me to a whole new level as I continue to trust this inward process.– AB

“Thank you so much for the reading. I actually see myself in a whole new light. Everything made so much sense. And you are just amazing. Following the hand analysis path just makes even more sense.” GK

There’s more….

Receive confirmation of 5 sets of fingerprints.  (Value $150). At anytime throughout the year, when you receive questionable fingerprints, you simply email the handprints to me and I will confirm the prints via email, ideally within 24 hours, if I’m not traveling.

Email reasonably quick questions to Kay during the year and she’ll respond with an answer for free.

Receive tips for taking handprints and guiding your clients to take the best photo’s possible of their hands for your interpretation.

Receive business building templates and accountability to support your business development including:

  • How to Give Yourself a Raise
  • Clear Your Money Clutter (this 12 minute recording is scheduled for delivery on Jan. 3, 2019)
  • How to Build Your Profit Pyramid or add to your current Pyramid
  • Questions to ask your clients to receive the most relevant testimonials

 

Are you ready to join?

2019 Tuition: $500

Enrollment is now closed for 2019

Enrollment for 2020 will open in Dec. 2019

We look forward to having you part of this insightful and inspiring community

Your Ultimate Life Mapping Requires a Revolution of Purpose

Pretend a new destination you want to travel is Sequoia National Park, California. To get to your primary points of interest you’ll use 4 different map views: Area, General, Driving and Detail.

  1. The Area map is the highest-level view showing the destination relative to the cities in the state of California.
  2. The map of the General area shows Sequoia and Kings Canyon National Parks, the neighboring National Forests and the names of the peaks and mountain ranges.
  3. The Driving map gives a more detailed map of the roads, campgrounds, vista points, caves and curves in the road.
  4. The Detailed map shows trails for walking, hiking and horseback riding.

All of these maps are provided to assure you reach your desired destination. People travel from all around the world to visit the giant trees in Sequoia National Park. I know because I live 6 miles from the gateway into the park.

Imagine traveling somewhere you’ve always wanted to go, where you’ve never been before, but without having a map!

How long would it take to arrive? You could stop and ask people for directions, but you know how country roads work; turn left after the big oak tree, drive for 3 miles then take another left at the big red rock…

Natural areas pose hazards. Roads become very narrow. They are winding and cut into very steep mountainsides. Over using automobile breaks instead of shifting into low gear can end very badly. Roads are subject to closure. Chains are required in winter. Be sure to gas up before entering the park because there are no gas stations. And most importantly don’t leave food or ice chests in the car otherwise curious and hungry bears will tear off the door of your car to have a tasty snack.

Similarly, the lines in your hands offer assorted types of maps to pinpoint obstacles, cautionary signs as well as the best route to your most fulfilling destination, per se.

In truth, this ride isn’t about getting to a static point but to experience your ‘right life’ – consciously. Right life is living in your most natural state, like the sun rising and falling, without effort. When I say consciously I mean where you are being present and aware of yourself in now-time.

In this being-ness resides pure joy.

However, there is an aspect in all of us that resists change. Our reptilian brain likes the status quo. It fears anything new. To grow into our highest potential we must act courageously and take new roads into the unknown.

Transformation happens when we let go and surrender to our natural path – like the caterpillar changing into a butterfly.

Transformation offers the essence of the creature to be empowered in its own right.

I’ve designed a fabulous 6-hour LIVE webinar course for hand readers called Revolution of Purpose. A revolution is necessary now because, more than ever before, it is time to plunge into unknown territories where competing distractions keep us stuck, confused and playing small.

Now is the time to stand up to the fear behind our unconscious habit patterns and withdraw all power given to that fear.

In revolution we rise up.

In revolution we become dogged, earnest and one-pointed toward the purpose, which in this case is our natural state. It’s time for you to stand up on behalf of your client and hold him or her as powerful in his or her highest potential.

We are here wandering through many life-classrooms to develop skills to return to our true Self; to remember the Source of our Being. The human hand and the fingerprints carry the code to expedite that homecoming. But willingness, courage, understanding and earnestness are required on behalf of the traveler.

This is where you, Mr. or Ms. Hand Reader come in. Whether you’ve trained for two months, two years or two decades, you have an almost unimaginable significance to contribute to the whole. 

In Revolution of Purpose you’ll revisit your reason for being, re-activate your potential and regain momentum for living on purpose – fully and completely. You’ll also explore advanced language encoded into the fingerprint patterns and give every single one of your clients pinpointing and concrete direction to formulate a high level life map. Learn how to direct them more precisely as they decide to look at the detailed maps and observe the cautionary signs. Staying on the road is key.

The purpose of life is to live.

Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj (1897-1981) said, “Living is Life’s only purpose.”

“There is no question of failure, neither in the short run nor in the long. It is like traveling a long and arduous road in an unknown country. Of all the innumerable steps there is only the last, which brings you to your destination. Yet you will not consider all previous steps as failures. Each brought you nearer to your goal, even when you had to turn back to by-pass an obstacle. In reality each step brings you to your goal, because to be always on the move, learning, discovering, unfolding, is your eternal destiny.”

We are remembering into the undivided, unified WHOLE of Awareness. On this journey opposition is required. How can light be understood without knowing darkness? How can peace know itself without not-peace (chaos)?

Use contrast to live in joy.

Abraham says the purpose of life is to live in joy, being thrilled with our involvement in the expansion of consciousness. She wants us to ‘chew on contrast’ to use what we don’t want as a vibrational rocket of desire toward that which we do want. You might like to listen to this 13-minute recording by Abraham where a member of the audience asks, “What is the ultimate purpose.” The dialog is stimulating and builds a solid case for living with purpose.

Fingerprints reflect a vibrational imprint and when correctly interpreted provide a direct path to ultimate living.

Richard Unger, author of LifePrints said the Navajo Indians have a saying about fingerprints: “The Great Spirit breathes in the breath of life, and the tracks of that breath become our fingerprints.”

A particular paradox is encoded in each person’s unique set of fingerprints which depicts upside and downside possibilities. Each side must be revealed and experienced so that the opposites can be transcended and unity understood.

The relative universe (life) provides the grounds for Absolute Truth, the undivided, unified WHOLE of Existence.

In other words, your manifested form allows the Infinite/Source to know and experience Itself and it’s inherent qualities such as unconditional love, infinite creative ability and pure joy.

So let’s expedite our muddling through the muck and help our clients do the same. You are the translator of a life mapping system coded into the uniquely designed fingerprints. You are a mighty messenger for aliveness.

“A map does not just chart, it unlocks and formulates meaning; it forms bridges between here and there, between disparate ideas that we did not know were previously connected.” -Reif Larsen

Hand reader, do check out this live webinar course… And keep up the great work. And if you’re not a hand reader and you want to learn how to decipher the fingerprint code check out the programs I offer at www.academyofhandanalysis.org. Private training is gladly offered, as well.

The Neptune Star Indicates the Potential for Profound Awareness through Unfathomable Emotion

Your short lesson today is about a marking that can appear in the hand called a Neptune Star.

The Neptune Star is a six-pointed star that looks like an asterisk in the bottom middle area of the palm on the Neptune Mount.

The configuration of this star will not include the Life or Fate Line. This marking can usually be seen with the naked eye and sometimes on the inked handprint if the lowest section of the palm is captured on the print. Look carefully for this glyph because it does like to hide. On rare occasion more than one star can be found in this location. In such case, the following description intensifies and needs to become even more of a centerpiece in one’s life.

At his or her best, the owner of a Neptune Star comes to profound understanding and awareness through unfathomable waves of intense emotion.

Neptune is the mythological god of water and the sea. Think about the sea and what happens there? The deepest chasm of the ocean has its own rhythm and experiences unpredictable storm systems. The ocean itself sways between the extremes of majestic stillness and unforgiving squalls. Emotions are ruled by the element of water hence the relationship with tranquility and tumult.

The owner of this star can be utterly baffled on the path to understanding the ‘gift’ in this marking. He or she may be riddled with tears and have no words why. When people close by ask “why are you crying?” s/he is unable to articulate the ‘reason’ because even s/he does not have a reason why. The ‘happy’ tears can come just as easily as the ‘sad’ tears. This depth of sea employs no rationality.

Astrologer Paul Grell said, “Neptune reaches both the most sublime heights and the lowest depths.” When the awareness of this keen and profound understanding is grasped just enough, the owner can begin exploring her own deep and heavy feelings. These feelings are most likely difficult, unpredictable, scary, and dark and whatever else happens in the deep, deep oceans.

Grief Counselors help people through nearly unbearable transitions. Hospice Workers guide and prepare listeners through the death experience to new realms of life. Owning this marking and the accompanying traits will enhance the ability, approach and success of these counselor types. Psychic Medium, John Edwards of Crossing Over may have this marking of profound awareness along with the ability to translate that understanding to individuals who are in deep pain, ache and tenderness due to loss.

If you see this marking in someone’s hand just ‘sit’ with him or who who may be out of touch with what he or she doesn’t know he or she’s out of touch with. Sitting with the owner means being quiet, still, and holding space for the deep seas to stir in accord to his or her own restlessness – within. Be prepared to gently offer a tissue with eyes of support and compassion. There is no need to ask any questions, formulate any assessments or move to the next marking in the hand.

If you own this marking its completely natural to feel stuck in overwhelm and confusion around the intense emotional waves that run through the core of your being. It can feel like you’re drowning. At times you may feel introverted, vague, fearful, delusional and/or uncontrollable rage. This is completely normal on your learning journey to deep awareness. As you observe the confusion around your emotions know that you are now on the path with great compassion for advancement to a place of higher wisdom beyond reason. You can cultivate Divine inspiration from being impressionable to the myriad of emotions surrounding you. Consider positioning yourself to assist others with your unique gift. These fields may include Grief Counselors, Poets, Actors, AA/NA Sponsors, Funeral Directors and Hospice Workers.

Bottom Line Thinking with Persona

Your short lesson today involves two markings in the hands. One is the Line of Persona (in turquoise) and the second is the Bottom Line Thinking Head Line (in green). The Line of Persona stands alone and starts at the top of the palm between the pointer and middle fingers. The Bottom Line Thinking Head Line can be any length but the end has a gentle flip upward where I’ve drawn the arrow.

The Line of Persona tells me the owner has the ability to say something polite at the right time like a nurse at your bedside when you’re sick. The owner can even go out of his or her way to make someone feel comfortable when it’s unnecessary. For example helping the dentist to feel comfortable before performing a root canal. The owner of the Line of Persona is able to take on a role, such as an actor, to accommodate what he or she perceives another person needs to hear to feel emotionally comfortable.

Owners of the Bottom Line Thinking Head Line get frustrated with details because they want information to be necessary, condensed and to the point. If you work with or for the owner of a Bottom Line Thinking Head Line here’s a tip: Be brief, be bright and be gone!

If this line is etched into either of your palms and you’re listening to someone speak you will be silently asking yourself, “Is this important? Or is this not important?” Your first instinct is to get to the bottom line, to the meat of the matter and you want others to do the same, too.

Because you are wired this way you may not understand that the rest of the world doesn’t process information the same way. One owner of this line recently told me, “What I call bottom line is getting to the core truth. If you understand that [core truth] you understand everything. I’m watching for every fact or piece of the story to plug in some place.” Another owner of the Bottom Line Thinking mind explained to me that she gets annoyed with herself when she gets hung up on a thought (like trying to remember someone’s name) because she feels like it’s taking too long to get to the point.

Here is the good news for the owner of Bottom Line Thinking intermingled with the Line of Persona. Often times people feel like they’re being ‘cut off’ by the Bottom Line Thinker but this tendency will be softened and potentially masked by the good bed side manner of the Persona Line.

In the good-hair-day-mode the owner of these two markings is gently able to say, “I want to hear what you have to say but please headline the summary first.”

In the bad-hair-day-mode the owner can

  1. A) Struggle, feeling ruthless and cold
  2. B) Become completely masked and placate people around, diminishing his/her lightning quick mind.
  3. C) Feel utterly frustrated in the waffling effect with the Line of Persona AND the interior pressure to get to the bottom line.

To a person with this combination I would recommend living and/or working in an environment where his/her natural aptitudes and talents can excel such as in a hospital emergency room or a court room as an attorney. Or in a service industry as a contractor assisting a confused widow remodeling her home or a Business Coach helping a client move swiftly through obstacles and effectively reach new heights.

With a mate this will most likely be exceptionally challenging. The cure: communication. If you own this intriguing combination of markings, to your mate you might say, “I truly care about what you’re saying. You might sense me cutting you off at times. I don’t mean to hurt your feelings. I’m just trying to determine what is truly important in what you want me to understand. My mind is wired to ‘get to the point.’ I now realize you may want to provide more details and have further conversation. Please be patient with me because I’m wired differently than you. Okay?”

Tip for someone who lives with a Bottom Line Thinker: Don’t take a curt response to your conversation personally. Appreciate your mate for getting to the truth without fluff and run-around jargon.

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Free Mastermind Sep. 2018

Welcome to the AAHA Hand Factor Free Mastermind. The handprints below have been submitted for discussion during our live webinar on Mon. Sep. 16, 2018.

Prints 01_02 (below)

 

 

Prints 03_04 (below)

MM_03 Right from NP

MM_04 Left from NP

Prints 05_06 (below)

 

Announcements:

Sign up by Tue. 9/18 for the next How to Create a 6-Session-Package for Professional Hand Readers

Available until Sep. 21 Two-for-One End of Summer Hand Readings with Kay (7 spots left)

Developing Lines in Beth’s Hands

Project Snowflake was officially kicked off Jan. 31, 2010. I’m 8 years into the research, printing selected children’s hands to observe changes, life lessons and how each one grows into his or her life purpose.

Before the project began, Beth’s hands were printed for the first time in early 2004 when she was 7. She is now 22. 

These side-by-side prints below show a noticeable change in Beth’s prints since last year. Vertical lines are developing under the pinkie finger on the mound of Mercury inside the blue circle.

Comparing 2017 and 2018 Handprints.

In traditional palmistry this formation of vertical lines is called the Medical Stigmata. Famous palmists found this marking on people in the healing arts such as doctors, nurses and veterinarians.

In Richard Unger’s system, which I teach, this configuration is called the Gifted Healer. It indicates someone having exceptional ability to listen and hear what’s truly going on inside another individual from a psychological perspective. The key is for the owner of the marking to trust the insights they are receiving instead of doubting or dismissing their inner knowing.

I’ve seen this marking on photographers, speakers, accountants and many others who are not in a professional healing practice. These owners display an innate ability to hold powerful space for acceptance of what is causing inner upset and conflict.  

To learn more about the Gifted Healer and other healer markers that can appear in the hands click HERE.  

Read another article here: Palmistry 101: Radical Transformation and Healing

Now, I’m off to round up some more snowflakes and continue my research!